If anything eternally true can be said of us male subs, it's that we can be super thick in the skull most of the time. Take, for example, my experiences since Valentine's Day.
I thought I had it all thought out. Children grown and out of the house, the relationship with my wife seemingly getting better and better (although her going through menopause is driving her "hormone crazy" at times)...I thought I could jump in and ask for something I have always wanted safely and somewhat boldly.
Needless to say...I should have followed what Mrs. Claudia, Ms. Rika, Elise Sutton and a few other experts in the field had to say. I put too much out there too soon and overloaded her.
On Valentine's Day, not only did I buy her a huge box of her absolute favorite chocolate, and treated her to a shopping spree at one of her favorite clothing stores, I also bought her a nice (albeit a bit fetishy) piece of lingerie along with a letter expressing my desire for a Female Led Relationship and for her to control my orgasms (along with a few printouts from various blogs explaining what the lifestyle entailed in reality). This last gift I left on the table as I took our dog out for a lonnnnng walk.
When I returned, I noticed that she had opened the gift and that she was a bit distant but I thought that would pass. We went out so she could go on her shopping spree and we ate lunch at a restaurant she always wanted to try. I felt so good that I was finally able to do all these things for her.
Later that evening, without discussing things, she called me upstairs to the bedroom. There she was wearing the sexy outfit and instantly I was mesmerized. She laid me on the bed and began teasing me. I thought that she was comfortable with everything I had written so I just laid back and enjoyed things. I gave her an orgasm and she finally gave me one (although I would have very happily done without). I felt like this was "the beginning of a beautiful friendship", so to speak.
The rest of the week was delicious to me. I felt like I was on top of the world. I would start the day with doing the chores she would do before getting ready for work. I loved it...I felt like I was really living like I should always have. I would massage her feet each night as we watched tv. I thought things were really working out.
(...to be continued)
