I have not written a blog before. Partly because I want to protect my privacy and find the right constellation. I consider a blog like a personal diary which focuses on certain aspects of a personal life. Thus personal information may be revealed which has been my major concern so far. Anyway, I decided that if my personal diary can be related to and can contribute positively to the (eventual) readers personal life, it is worth it. While I am anonomyous, my reaction to feedback is quite real. That is the reason why I choose this closed forum where quite a few kindred spirits may reside.
About me: I am a 34 year old male from Europe and english is not my first language as you can probably tell. I am confident that I can be understood quite easily and see no problem there. I study at the university (doing my masters) and obviously like to read. Besides that, I have been practicing and teaching martial arts for many years, but only do some workout now.
I introduced myself to the scene four years ago, when I visited the local SM-club. I had no experience, only the desire to explore the bdsm-realm with no expectations. I came alone and left alone, but in between I met the woman who soon was to become my mistress. We both fell in love immediately (sounds tacky, ehh?) and the relationship started in that manner. From there on, we began to explore the new and exiting mindscape and found likes and dislikes that we never even imagined existed. The journey is still ongoing but there is no goal. By that I mean that we do not cross boundaries or try to add sm-activities to our CV. We only enjoy the journey. -And what a journey it is!..
I plan to use this blog as my personal Ds diary where I can reflect upon mental and physical states. It is also a place where I can reflect on the consequences and implications of living in a Ds relationship. Because I am new to this (blogging) I will -for the time being- concentrate on chastity that we introduced 10 days ago, when we bought a Neosteel chastity belt in Germany.
I am looking forward to contributing my personal experiences and hope they can inspire.
Tags: Femdom Chastity Lifestyle
